Emotional separation between couples and its impact on family life

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Assistant Professor of Jurisprudence at the Faculty of Islamic and Arabic Studies for Girls in Beni Suef

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The research aims to demonstrate the concept of emotional separation and related terms to address Islamic jurisprudence for the phenomenon of emotional separation that affects the family. As it’s the basic structure of society and the society can be strong and coherent if the family is close-knit. Thus, many interests of society can be achieved and expressed by sharia scholars "The purposes of marriage". the dignity of the verse Allah – Subhanah- said (And live with them in kindness). Islam requires good cohabitation between the spouses and delineates the limits of treatment, so that one party does not overwhelm another, and one does not pain the another partner, I also require maintenance for men. This urged the choice of a good woman, the acceptance of a good man from the outset in order to avoid problems occurring after marriage and the initiation of the sermon to let them know each other ' God made marriage one of the reasons for cooperation, compassion, compassion, love, affection, housing and stability, and these are some of the purposes of marriage, Allah -Subhanah- said. (And among His Signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect).
Scientists (affection) interpreted kindness, love, (and compassion) with compassion; Ibn Abbas said: "Affection is his woman's love, and mercy is upon her to make her worse.
 

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thalthaan kutub allughat ,wlughat alfuqaha'
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* bidayat almujtahid wanihayat almuqtasad : 'abu alwalid muhamad bin 'ahmad bin muhamad bin 'ahmad bin rushd alqurtubii alshahir biaibn rushd alhafid (almutawafaa : 595hi) alnaashir : matbaeat mustafaa albabi alhalabi wa'awladuhu, misr altabeat : alraabieatu, 1395h/
* altalqin fi alfiqh almalikii : 'abu muhamad eabd alwahaab bin eali bin nasr althaelabii albaghdadi almalikii (almutawafaa : 422hi)almuhaqiq : 'abu 'uwis muhamad bu khabzat alhusni altitwaniu dar alkutub aleilmiat altabeat : altabeat al'uwlaa 1425hi-2004m
* althamar aldaani fi taqrib almaeani sharh risalat aibn 'abi zayd alqayrawani :salih bin eabd alsamie alabi al'azhari (almutawafaa 1335hi) alnaashir : almaktabat althaqafiat - bayrut.
* hashiat aldasuqi ealaa alsharh alkabir :muhamad bin 'ahmad aldusuqaa (t : 1230hi)
* alrawd almurabae sharh zad almustaqnie :mansur bin yunis bin 'iidris albuhutaa (t 1051hi),tah saeid muhamad allaham dar alfikr liltibaeat walnashr - bayrut - lubnan
* alfiqh ealaa almadhahib al'arbaeati, almualif : eabd alrahman aljazirii .
* alfawakih aldawaniu ealaa risalat aibn 'abi zayd alqayrawani almualif 'ahmad bin ghunaym bin salim alnafrawii (almutawafaa : 1126hi) almuhaqiq :rida farahat alnaashir : maktabat althaqafat aldiyniati.
* alfiqh al'islamy wadllatuh alshshaml lladllt alshshareyat walara' almdhhbyat wahm alnnazryaat alfqhyat watahqiq al'ahadith alnnabwyat watakhrijiha almualif : 'a.d. wahbat alzzuhayli .
* kifayat altaalib alrabaanii lirisalat 'abi zayd alqayrawani li'abaa alhasan almaliki tahqiq : yusif alshaykh muhamad albiqaei alnaashir : dar alfikr sanat alnashr : 1412h . bayrut
* kifayat altaalib alrabaanii lirisalat 'abi zayd alqayrawani li'abaa alhasan almaliki tahqiq : yusif alshaykh muhamad albiqaei alnaashir : dar alfikr sanat alnashr : 1412h . bayrut
* kashaaf alqinae ean matn al'iiqnae almualaf : mansur bin yunis bin 'iidris albahutaa (almutawafaa : 1051hi)
* almajmue sharah almuhadhab : 'abu zakariaa muhyi aldiyn yahyaa bin sharaf alnawawiu (almutawafaa : 676hi)[ hu sharh alnawawii likitab almuhadhab lilshiyrazii (almutawafaa : 476 hu) ]
masadir 'ukhraa :
sahifat sabq alalkutrunia .qadaya altalaq aleatifii 5/safar 1436h 28-11-2014m.
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